Past the first-date stage. Picking up where the proposal left off. Ten Bangkok date-night bars our editors return to.
The date-night bar is a different brief from the first-date bar. The first-date bar has to pass — the date-night bar has to be a place you both enjoy enough to come back to. These ten venues in Bangkok are where our editors send couples three months in, three years in, thirty years in. They are not flashy. They are the rooms our editors are sending their partners to, on Tuesday nights when nothing in particular is happening.
The Bangkok bars our editors take their own partners to
The first six picks below are the editors' default — the rooms we send a friend to first when they ask. Each is followed by a recommendation we have ordered ourselves at least three times. Click any bar name to read the full review, signature drink notes, neighbourhood guide and how to book.
Mahaniyom Cocktail Bar, in Khlong Toei, the room is what it should be — quiet without being precious, busy without being a queue. An honest pour at honest prices. The kind of room that holds up at three years in and at thirty. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.
Rabbit Hole sits in Watthana and the room is what it should be — quiet without being precious, busy without being a queue. An honest pour at honest prices. The kind of room that holds up at three years in and at thirty. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.
At Vesper Bangkok in Bang Rak, the vesper martini arrives in a coupe and the bar staff move at the right pace. Repeat visits earn you the corner. After the third time, the staff start saving it for you. After the sixth, the menu is ordering itself. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.
In Watthana, Akkee the door is unmarked enough to feel discovered and known enough to be reliable. An honest pour at honest prices. The kind of room that holds up at three years in and at thirty. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.
At Teens of Thailand in Phra Nakhon, the gin jam is on the menu year-round for a reason and the bartenders pour with intent. An honest pour at honest prices. The kind of room that holds up at three years in and at thirty. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.
At Asia Today in Phra Nakhon, the door is unmarked enough to feel discovered and known enough to be reliable. Repeat visits earn you the corner. After the third time, the staff start saving it for you. After the sixth, the menu is ordering itself. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.
Order: Pandan Highball
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These last four are the editors' deeper-cut picks. Smaller rooms, more specific energy. If the first six feel obvious to you — meaning you have already been — start here.
Tropic City sits in Bang Rak and the room is what it should be — quiet without being precious, busy without being a queue. An honest pour at honest prices. The kind of room that holds up at three years in and at thirty. Editors' rating in our database: 4.6 of 5.
Samrub for Thai Bar sits in Khlong Toei and the room is what it should be — quiet without being precious, busy without being a queue. An honest pour at honest prices. The kind of room that holds up at three years in and at thirty. Editors' rating in our database: 4.6 of 5.
In Sathon, Aviary Bangkok the aviary highball is on the menu year-round for a reason and the bartenders pour with intent. Repeat visits earn you the corner. After the third time, the staff start saving it for you. After the sixth, the menu is ordering itself. Editors' rating in our database: 4.6 of 5.
Q&A Bar sits in Watthana and the door is unmarked enough to feel discovered and known enough to be reliable. Repeat visits earn you the corner. After the third time, the staff start saving it for you. After the sixth, the menu is ordering itself. Editors' rating in our database: 4.6 of 5.
Order: Q&A Old Fashioned
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Date-night bars are the venues you want the staff to know your face at. Two suggestions. Pick one from this list and turn it into your monthly Tuesday — the staff will remember, the corner will get held, and over time the bar starts to feel like an extension of your living room. That is the goal.
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