St Louis
St. Louis's most romantic drinking rooms are the ones locals use for first dates. The date night bars on this list span every neighbourhood worth a trip — Soulard, Central West End, The Grove, Lafayette Square all show up — and every price tier from a $5 local pour to a $25 hotel-bar tasting. Each bar earns its spot for a different reason. We have visited every one.
LAFAYETTE SQUARE · $$$ · COCKTAIL BARS
St. Order: Toasted-pecan Old Fashioned. Best time: Tuesday and Wednesday before 9pm, when the regulars haven't filled the room yet. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Saturday after 10pm gets crowded — book ahead or arrive early.
THE GROVE · $$$ · COCKTAIL BARS
Cocktail-and-tapas bar with one of the longest tequila lists in the Midwest. Order: Toasted-pecan Old Fashioned. Best time: any weeknight between 7pm and 9pm, when the bar settles into its rhythm and the bartender has time to talk. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Friday from 8pm fills up; reserve a counter seat or a high table.
CLAYTON · $$$ · COCKTAIL BARS
Heritage French-influenced cocktail-and-wine bar. Order: Toasted-pecan Old Fashioned. Best time: Sunday from 6pm, when it's the room's quietest premium night and the kitchen is unhurried. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Avoid post-match nights if the local team is playing — the upstairs gets loud.
CHEROKEE STREET · $$ · COCKTAIL BARS
Boutique cocktail-and-pizza bar in a converted storefront. Order: Toasted-pecan Old Fashioned. Best time: Thursday late or Friday early, when you'll catch the room building toward its weekend tempo. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. First-Friday traffic in the district can mean a 20-minute wait at the door.
TOWER GROVE SOUTH · $$ · COCKTAIL BARS
Cocktail bar inside a former corner shop. Order: Toasted-pecan Old Fashioned. Best time: Tuesday and Wednesday before 9pm, when the regulars haven't filled the room yet. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Saturday after 10pm gets crowded — book ahead or arrive early.
BENTON PARK · $$ · COCKTAIL BARS
Eccentric mosaic-tile bar that has been a St. Order: Toasted-pecan Old Fashioned. Best time: any weeknight between 7pm and 9pm, when the bar settles into its rhythm and the bartender has time to talk. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Friday from 8pm fills up; reserve a counter seat or a high table.
Use this guide either as a single curated route through St. Louis or as a checklist to revisit over a long weekend. Reservations are flagged where they matter. Otherwise, walk in. Below: the ten date night bars that any serious drinker in St. Louis would tell you to put on the list.
St. Order: Toasted-pecan Old Fashioned. Best time: Tuesday and Wednesday before 9pm, when the regulars haven't filled the room yet. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Saturday after 10pm gets crowded — book ahead or arrive early.
Cocktail-and-tapas bar with one of the longest tequila lists in the Midwest. Order: Toasted-pecan Old Fashioned. Best time: any weeknight between 7pm and 9pm, when the bar settles into its rhythm and the bartender has time to talk. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Friday from 8pm fills up; reserve a counter seat or a high table.
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