Conversation-friendly. Easy to leave. Drinks under €20. Ten bars our editors keep recommending when readers ask where to take a first date.
First dates are the highest-stakes hospitality test in the city. The room has to be quiet enough to hear each other but full enough that a long silence does not feel cavernous. The drink list has to give a reader who does not drink a graceful out. The exit has to be easy. Our editors have spent the past year vetting Brussels's cocktail rooms specifically for this question — where do you take someone you might not see again, but might see for the next twenty years?
Where the editors take a first date in Brussels
The first six picks below are the editors' default — the rooms we send a friend to first when they ask. Each is followed by a recommendation we have ordered ourselves at least three times. Click any bar name to read the full review, signature drink notes, neighbourhood guide and how to book.
At La Fleur en Papier Dore in Sablon, the door is unmarked enough to feel discovered and known enough to be reliable. Pick a corner two-top and order across the menu — the staff are unfussed, the room is dim enough that you can read each other but bright enough that you can read the menu. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.
Momo Cocktail Bar sits in City Centre and the room is what it should be — quiet without being precious, busy without being a queue. Pick a corner two-top and order across the menu — the staff are unfussed, the room is dim enough that you can read each other but bright enough that you can read the menu. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.
In Saint-Gilles, The Living Room the living room manhattan is on the menu year-round for a reason and the bartenders pour with intent. Conversation here travels well. The acoustics are tuned for two people leaning in, not eight people leaning out, which is exactly what a first date needs. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.
In Ixelles, Green Lab the green lab botanical is on the menu year-round for a reason and the bartenders pour with intent. Easy to leave gracefully if it is not working. Easy to extend if it is. The exit has a quiet street, not a queue. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.
At Volstead Prohibition Bar in City Centre, the volstead manhattan is on the menu year-round for a reason and the bartenders pour with intent. Conversation here travels well. The acoustics are tuned for two people leaning in, not eight people leaning out, which is exactly what a first date needs. Editors' rating in our database: 4.6 of 5.
The Flat sits in Saint-Gilles and the flat highball arrives in a coupe and the bar staff move at the right pace. Pick a corner two-top and order across the menu — the staff are unfussed, the room is dim enough that you can read each other but bright enough that you can read the menu. Editors' rating in our database: 4.6 of 5.
Order: Flat Highball
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These last four are the editors' deeper-cut picks. Smaller rooms, more specific energy. If the first six feel obvious to you — meaning you have already been — start here.
At Soixante Huit in Ixelles, the 68 spritz arrives in a coupe and the bar staff move at the right pace. Easy to leave gracefully if it is not working. Easy to extend if it is. The exit has a quiet street, not a queue. Editors' rating in our database: 4.5 of 5.
At The London Calling in Saint-Gilles, the london calling manhattan is on the menu year-round for a reason and the bartenders pour with intent. Easy to leave gracefully if it is not working. Easy to extend if it is. The exit has a quiet street, not a queue. Editors' rating in our database: 4.5 of 5.
The Bank, in City Centre, the bank old fashioned is on the menu year-round for a reason and the bartenders pour with intent. Conversation here travels well. The acoustics are tuned for two people leaning in, not eight people leaning out, which is exactly what a first date needs. Editors' rating in our database: 4.5 of 5.
In Ixelles, Hortense the room is what it should be — quiet without being precious, busy without being a queue. Easy to leave gracefully if it is not working. Easy to extend if it is. The exit has a quiet street, not a queue. Editors' rating in our database: 4.8 of 5.
Order: Hortense Manhattan
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If you are reading this article, you are probably between the booking confirmation and the actual date. Three rules. Book the table — walking in with a reservation says you put thought in. Pick the bar nearest to public transport, not the one with the best view. And keep dinner reservations elsewhere; if the conversation works, you are going to want a second venue.
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