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Where to propose in Paris

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Marcus Webb
8 min read

Published · Last updated · Reviewed by the barsforKings editorial team

Private corners, skyline rooms, a maitre d' who will hide the ring. Our ten editor-vetted picks for proposing in Paris.

A proposal is a piece of theatre staged for one person. The bar matters less than the room within the bar — the corner table the staff will reserve under your name, the terrace they will keep clear at 8.45 sharp, the discreet sommelier who has done this before and will not announce it. Every venue on this list will accommodate a proposal request if you call ahead and tip well. These are the ten in Paris our editors have personally watched a 'yes' happen in.

The Paris rooms our editors trust for proposals

The first six picks below are the editors' default — the rooms we send a friend to first when they ask. Each is followed by a recommendation we have ordered ourselves at least three times. Click any bar name to read the full review, signature drink notes, neighbourhood guide and how to book.

01
Bar Hemingway at The Ritz

Bar Hemingway at The Ritz sits in 1er and the door is unmarked enough to feel discovered and known enough to be reliable. The terrace at sunset is the picture you have already drafted in your head. The skyline is the supporting cast. The bar staff know to stay out of the frame. Editors' rating in our database: 4.9 of 5.

Order: Serendipity

02
Little Red Door

In 3e, Little Red Door the crow arrives in a coupe and the bar staff move at the right pace. Discreet enough that the floor will not announce it, generous enough that they will quietly send a sparkling drink across afterwards. Editors' rating in our database: 4.8 of 5.

Order: Crow

03
Combat

Combat sits in 20e and the door is unmarked enough to feel discovered and known enough to be reliable. Call the manager three weeks out and ask for the corner. The staff have done this before. The room will hold its hush at the right moment. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.

Order: Combat Sour

04
Le Bar du Plaza Athenee

Le Bar du Plaza Athenee sits in 8e and the room is what it should be — quiet without being precious, busy without being a queue. Discreet enough that the floor will not announce it, generous enough that they will quietly send a sparkling drink across afterwards. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.

Order: Rose Royal

05
Danico

Danico sits in 2e and the door is unmarked enough to feel discovered and known enough to be reliable. Call the manager three weeks out and ask for the corner. The staff have done this before. The room will hold its hush at the right moment. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.

Order: Maccatale

06
Experimental Cocktail Club

In 2e, Experimental Cocktail Club the door is unmarked enough to feel discovered and known enough to be reliable. Discreet enough that the floor will not announce it, generous enough that they will quietly send a sparkling drink across afterwards. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.

Order: Mantra

Quieter alternatives, also in Paris

These last four are the editors' deeper-cut picks. Smaller rooms, more specific energy. If the first six feel obvious to you — meaning you have already been — start here.

07
Cravan

At Cravan in 16e, the white negroni is on the menu year-round for a reason and the bartenders pour with intent. Call the manager three weeks out and ask for the corner. The staff have done this before. The room will hold its hush at the right moment. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.

Order: White Negroni

08
Candelaria

Candelaria, in 3e, the guepe verte arrives in a coupe and the bar staff move at the right pace. Call the manager three weeks out and ask for the corner. The staff have done this before. The room will hold its hush at the right moment. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.

Order: Guepe Verte

09
Le Syndicat

Le Syndicat, in 10e, the calva punch is on the menu year-round for a reason and the bartenders pour with intent. Discreet enough that the floor will not announce it, generous enough that they will quietly send a sparkling drink across afterwards. Editors' rating in our database: 4.7 of 5.

Order: Calva Punch

10
Le Perchoir Menilmontant

At Le Perchoir Menilmontant in 11e, the door is unmarked enough to feel discovered and known enough to be reliable. The terrace at sunset is the picture you have already drafted in your head. The skyline is the supporting cast. The bar staff know to stay out of the frame. Editors' rating in our database: 4.6 of 5.

Order: Belleville Mule

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What to know before you go

Three things every successful proposal at one of these bars has in common. One: a phone call to the manager at least three weeks ahead — say the word 'proposal' and ask for the corner table. Two: a backup plan that does not depend on the weather. Three: tip cash, before the moment, to whoever is running the floor that night. They will move heaven for you.

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