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The 10 Best Date Night Bars in New York

New York's most romantic drinking rooms are the ones locals use for first dates. The date night bars on this list span every neighbourhood worth a trip — the central districts all show up — and every price tier from a $5 local pour to a $25 hotel-bar tasting. Each bar earns its spot for a different reason. We have visited every one.

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    Amor y Amargo New York

    THE CENTRE · $$ · COCKTAIL BARS

    Amor y Amargo opened in 2011 with an unusual thesis: a cocktail bar that uses only stirred drinks and never citrus. Bitters are the centerpiece. The 12-seat spa. Order: the bar's house signature. Best time: Tuesday and Wednesday before 9pm, when the regulars haven't filled the room yet. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Saturday after 10pm gets crowded — book ahead or arrive early.

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    Angel's Share

    EAST VILLAGE · $$$ · COCKTAIL BARS

    Angel's Share draws a steady local crowd in East Village. Booking is recommended on weekends. Walk-ins are usually possible early in the evening. Order: the bar's house signature. Best time: any weeknight between 7pm and 9pm, when the bar settles into its rhythm and the bartender has time to talk. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Friday from 8pm fills up; reserve a counter seat or a high table.

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    Apothèke New York

    THE CENTRE · $$$ · COCKTAIL BARS

    Apothèke is hidden on Doyers Street, the curved alley in Chinatown that was the most violent block in late-19th-century New York. The bar is styled as a Victori. Order: the bar's house signature. Best time: Sunday from 6pm, when it's the room's quietest premium night and the kitchen is unhurried. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Avoid post-match nights if the local team is playing — the upstairs gets loud.

  4. 04

    Arthur's Tavern

    WEST VILLAGE · $$ · COCKTAIL BARS

    Arthur's Tavern draws a steady local crowd in West Village. Booking is recommended on weekends. Walk-ins are usually possible early in the evening. Order: the bar's house signature. Best time: Thursday late or Friday early, when you'll catch the room building toward its weekend tempo. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. First-Friday traffic in the district can mean a 20-minute wait at the door.

  5. 05

    Attaboy New York

    THE CENTRE · $$$ · COCKTAIL BARS

    Attaboy occupies the former Milk and Honey space on Eldridge Street. Sasha Petraske ran Milk and Honey here from 2000 until 2013 and Attaboy continues the tradi. Order: the bar's house signature. Best time: Tuesday and Wednesday before 9pm, when the regulars haven't filled the room yet. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Saturday after 10pm gets crowded — book ahead or arrive early.

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    Banzarbar

    EAST VILLAGE · $$$ · COCKTAIL BARS

    Banzarbar draws a steady local crowd in East Village. Booking is recommended on weekends. Walk-ins are usually possible early in the evening. Order: the bar's house signature. Best time: any weeknight between 7pm and 9pm, when the bar settles into its rhythm and the bartender has time to talk. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Friday from 8pm fills up; reserve a counter seat or a high table.

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    Bar Goto New York

    THE CENTRE · $$$ · COCKTAIL BARS

    Kenta Goto worked at Pegu Club for many years before opening Bar Goto in 2015. The Lower East Side bar is committed to Japanese cocktail discipline: hard ice, s. Order: the bar's house signature. Best time: Sunday from 6pm, when it's the room's quietest premium night and the kitchen is unhurried. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Avoid post-match nights if the local team is playing — the upstairs gets loud.

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    Bemelmans Bar New York

    THE CENTRE · $$$$ · COCKTAIL BARS

    Bemelmans Bar at the Carlyle Hotel has the most beautiful interior of any cocktail bar in New York. The walls are covered in original 1947 murals by Ludwig Beme. Order: the bar's house signature. Best time: Thursday late or Friday early, when you'll catch the room building toward its weekend tempo. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. First-Friday traffic in the district can mean a 20-minute wait at the door.

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    Blind Tiger Ale House

    WEST VILLAGE · $$ · COCKTAIL BARS

    Blind Tiger Ale House draws a steady local crowd in West Village. Booking is recommended on weekends. Walk-ins are usually possible early in the evening. Order: the bar's house signature. Best time: Tuesday and Wednesday before 9pm, when the regulars haven't filled the room yet. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Saturday after 10pm gets crowded — book ahead or arrive early.

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    Blue Bar at The Algonquin

    THE CENTRE · $$$ · COCKTAIL BARS

    Reservations are recommended on Friday and Saturday evenings. The Blue Bar fills quickly after 7pm — booking ahead guarantees you the experience without the wai. Order: the bar's house signature. Best time: any weeknight between 7pm and 9pm, when the bar settles into its rhythm and the bartender has time to talk. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Friday from 8pm fills up; reserve a counter seat or a high table.

Use this guide either as a single curated route through New York or as a checklist to revisit over a long weekend. Reservations are flagged where they matter. Otherwise, walk in. Below: the ten date night bars that any serious drinker in New York would tell you to put on the list.

Amor y Amargo opened in 2011 with an unusual thesis: a cocktail bar that uses only stirred drinks and never citrus. Bitters are the centerpiece. The 12-seat spa. Order: the bar's house signature. Best time: Tuesday and Wednesday before 9pm, when the regulars haven't filled the room yet. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Saturday after 10pm gets crowded — book ahead or arrive early.

Angel's Share draws a steady local crowd in East Village. Booking is recommended on weekends. Walk-ins are usually possible early in the evening. Order: the bar's house signature. Best time: any weeknight between 7pm and 9pm, when the bar settles into its rhythm and the bartender has time to talk. Best for cocktail-curious drinkers who want technique without theatre. Friday from 8pm fills up; reserve a counter seat or a high table.

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